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Sexxy is Safe

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Sexxy is Safe 〰️

Rubbers and Roses — a free condom bar that turns safer sex into a celebration.

Imagine walking into a space where safety, consent, and sensuality meet style. Rubbers and Roses is a complimentary condom bar designed for events, private parties, and intimate gatherings. We supply a curated selection of premium condoms, high-quality lubricants, playful accessories, and tasteful décor that frames protection as part of the pleasure.

What’s included

  • Tasteful display with floral and rose-themed styling

  • Variety pack of premium condoms and non-latex options

  • Assorted lubes (water-based, silicone-based, flavored)

  • Discreet disposal and sanitary supplies

  • Quick instructional cards and consent reminders

  • Setup, restocking options, and post-event clean-up (when requested)

  • Seductive Size chart

Book Rubbers and Roses when you want your event to be remembered for the pleasure it enabled and the care it showed. We make protection a part of the party—stylishly, freely, and without judgment.

Seductive Play Care Collective

The Seductive Play Care Collective is a community outreach initiative focused on dignity, compassion, and support. Inspired by the legacy of Carol's C.J. Boutique (2024), this collective continues the mission of serving the community through care items, wellness resources, sexual awareness, health resources and support, and meaningful outreach.

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Carol J.

Carol J inspired me to be compassionate, caring, and true to myself a phenomenal woman whom I’m proud to call my mother. She is also the founder and inspiration for Midnight Sun, a holistic approach to sexual awareness. Rest beautifully in peace; your legacy lives on….

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  • Effortless accessibility: Guests can help themselves to condoms and lube without awkwardness or gatekeeping. Discreet packaging and elegant displays normalize safe choices.

    • Curated quality: A handpicked range of trusted brands, sizes, textures, and lubricant types ensures a perfect fit for every preference—latex, non-latex, thin, ribbed, flavored, and more.

    • Information made sexy: Brief, clear usage tips and quick consent reminders come wrapped in a confident, attractive design. We empower without lecturing.

Event-ready presentation: Our bars arrive styled with mood lighting, floral accents, tasteful signage, and disposable bins—keeps the vibe intimate and clean.

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  • Inclusivity-first: Non-binary, trans-friendly options and barrier choices for every body. All guests feel seen and provided for.

  • Zero-cost for hosts: We provide the setup and materials as a free amenity to enhance guest experience and reduce liability concerns

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The next Collective Care will be held on July 18, 2026

Dates and time: 28th- 30th @ 10 am-1 pm

Summertime into care!!

Who benefits

  • Hosts who want to elevate hospitality and safety

  • Event planners seeking inclusive, polished touches

  • Bars, clubs, and lounges aiming to promote responsible fun

  • Private parties and celebrations focused on consensual intimacy

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Our Services

  • WORKSHOPS AND SEMINARS

  • EVENT HOSTING

  • ONLINE RESOURCES

  • PARTNERSHIPS

  • ADVOCACY AND POLICY

  • SUPPORT SERVICES

  • COMMUNITY OUTREACH

  • ADDRESSING STIGMA AND DESCRIMINATION

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